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Looking to spread my wings

Very much a novice to aubmission. I like the sissy side, but do not want to have sex with men. I can see a woman in control, but not a man. So, I guess I'm an odd mix. I could see a crossdresser, but it would be unsettling. I figure at 62 I can spread my wings a little, but not too wide. After all, I don't need to try everything, but a Mistress is in the cards. At the present, I really don't have anywhere permanent. And I'm not sure of the road to travel. It might be with a buttplug in my ass.
I have been told I can talk too much. A gag could be useful and for some reason I become more passive with a blind fold. I like pain to a reasonable degree, but probably not into extreem. There are limits, etc. Remember, Roam wasn't built on a day. I'm flexible and would like to proceed clean and safe. See you?

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Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Both
How much Strapon can you handle?Average Sized

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:I am shy and public sex scares me. I have made love in a tent at a park and it got a little noisy for a few moments.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:I can be kind of kinky on my own. Generally, sometimes if someone walked in, not into BDSM, it would have been an awkward moment.

Appearance

BuildAverage
Height200 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureEyes
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtySales / Marketing

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI may need a couple of test drives.
Our first dateA session

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Power exchange, Spanking, Suspension, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI have had pleasure obviously. There was a time when my ex was fucking my ass so good and I swear I had an anal orgasm at least twice. It's always fun, but sometimes are just a little better.

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Piercings, Shoes / Boots, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isFun sometimes
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":I have too great a fear of extended isolation to do anything extreem. You want to lose me that would be outside my paramaters. Just because I have a sissy side and like to be topped, at least I think I do, doesn't mean I want to be with a man.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI see a Play session where I am strapped in a reclining chair suited for such things. The chair tips forward and backward, etc. I am escorted to the chair by a beautiful Mistress, another part of the story,
Once in place, you wishbone my legs out and tip the chair slightly back. My knees are bent and ankle's secured in place. Thigh straps, waste strap, wrists and neck straps finish the securing of your slut to the chair.
My body is trembling and you have a gag, buttplug, nipple device and blind fold. I have panties on and you'll just cut or them off. The chair is designed to split in the middle exposing my butt crack completely. You had already taken me to wash inside and out and we had a session in the lavatory already.
After attached to the chair with leather straps you walk up between my spread legs. You firmly remove nipple clamps and they hurt. You rub them and say to me, You are my slutty slut and you are mine now! I continue to wimper as you rub and tug my nipples. Oh, I say. And you, What doesn't my slutty slut like that?
I answer properly, Yes Mistress.
You let go and back off. Although blindfolded I hear you walk away from me - click, click, click...
I hear nothing. Then you return - click, click, click... You stop in front of me. I can feel a slight breeze against my shivering body from your arrival. I have something for you slut. You wikidly chuckle like all Mistresses do. Hum, You want want I have for you. I hessitate and don't say anything. You slap me across my head in my leather turit. What slut? I quickly, knod yes and mu.ble through my gag. You grab my nipples and squeeze. I wimper.
That's better, you say. You let go and I hear a metallic sound on a table close by. I'm not really sure and a little foggy from the increase in pain. You let go. I then hear a machine and it sound like it's wooshing. She chuckles. You're gonna like this. I know what you are my slutty slut. You're a bitch that needs to get fucked. You fucking sissy! You spit on my face. You come close up to me. I feel your breath and you say, you're mine and tonight is just the start.
She then brings her hands, with fingernails lightly dragging up my exposed chest. She dripps a fluid on each of my nipples and gently rubs it around the nipples. The lotion is wam.
I notice you have gloves on. You say to me in a soft and kindly tone, Do you love your Mistress? You gently rub my nipples. The compressor sound in the background. We wait a moment and you continue to rub and lightly touch me in little swirls and strikes. You chuckle.
You stop. It seems to soon. Oh, what is that I think irradically and I immediately feel the grasp of the suction. It slurps as it pulls up my left nipple. I feel the rug and then suction. You chuckle. I remain in position trembling.
You like that don't cha bitch! You fucking slutty slut I should just leave you here. I speak up through my gag. A,a,a n,no. I manage to get a syllable out. You chuckle. I'm going to have so much fun with you. You then proceed on to my other nipple while the left has continued to grow. My soft skinned chest is pulling up tightly. I groan. You pussy.
Both nipples are now engorging way beyond anything I have done. You say to me, they suck up nice slut. You know I think we're going to do some piersing on you. I immediately make a jester. Waa, partial words come out of my gagged mouth piece. Don't you worry my slave. Not tonight. For some reason I feel a sigh of relief. All this is going on with my nipples going I don't know where? You then take an attachment off my left suction and then my right. There seems to be an oversized disk and nipple tube, or something like that now attached to my nipples, with my recently shaved chest. You tell me, Your nipples are so pretty all swelled up, pretty pink. You sound sort of happy and for a moment I don't think I trembled as much. And that's what you do bitch. Isn't it. Perv... But that's okay. I like perverted and I'll make you more. Bitch! I'll make you mine. You won't even be able to go to the bathroom without asking my permission. Ha, ha, ha. You then chuckle some more almost quietly. You say, I have much more planned for you. And remember this slutty slut this is just the beginning.
Fantasy locationTrain, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Hot tub, On the beach
Fantasy sex partner:I want to experience the submissive role with some limits. That is sort of why I want to experience and I am kinky. I'm sure I will have fun and maybe not so much. It's worth a try, but I am afraid my long-term male programming will interfere. Unless we work something out to keep me around I will have to come and go to conduct life. Of course I have responsibilities. Not as much anymore and I could disappear for days.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:I'm not really sure. I think there is a mix of things to do and spanking may not always be on the list. I've done a cane. Ohh! The worst are whips. No whips please. But other than that I can take it. I like nipple torture too. There comes a point when I am just being beat up. I would like my nipples and other body part too thought of as long term. My nipples are already nice. I have messed with them and you get an idea of what I may like by the way I have nipple enlarged. I had rings. They came out like a week apart. I liked them. I know some Dom's don't like jewelery because it gets in the way. I disagree. I think it's sexy and Play might change. I want piersings and tattoos.
Positions:Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Wooden Spoon, Other
Response:Resistance
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Supreme Goddess
I like to wear:Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Rubber, Other
Ideal session:That question has so many possible answers. I have mostly fantasized about a woman topping me. There are lots of titles to Play and I would change names according to a Mistresses preference. Princess, Mistress xxx, Goddess.... I would hope my Mistress is hot!
Ultimate femdom fantasy:It involves shaving me down, dressing me up, makeup and all, with final touch buttplug in ass and cock cage.